A gentle, private, guided space, live with me (Naomi Harris!).
15 Days to Feel It Again
Arousal, desire, orgasm, pleasure. All of it.
Whether you have lost it, or you never had it, your body can still wake up.
€27
This is space created for women, for women’s bodies, and women’s pleasure.
We start Saturday, 29 August!
You want to feel it. (Arousal, desire, orgasm, pleasure… all of it).
Not perform it, not fake it, not push through it. Actually feel it.
You want your body back. Wet, turned on, alive, yours, instead of numb, or tense, or just going through the motions.
You want to stop waiting for the right partner, the right amount of time, the right level of stress in your life, the right version of yourself, before any of this is allowed to happen.
15 Days to Feel It Again is a private, guided space to come back into your own arousal, your own desire, your own pleasure. One day at a time, with me right there with you the whole way through.
Who is 15 Days to Feel It Again for?
Women whose pleasure is sleeping, whether that happened last year or fifteen years ago.
Women in long relationships where the wanting has gone missing, (and neither of you talks about it, because why bother?).
Women who are single and are ready to give it one final go to find that spark of aliveness even though they are on their own.
Women moving through perimenopause or menopause, trying to work out who they are and what their bodies are doing now.
Women who've tried the creams, the toys, the techniques, the positions, and none of them have worked. Not really.
Women who are ready to stop waiting for someone else to fix this, and are going to dedicate 15 days to themselves.
Feel it all again.
In these 15 days, you will:
Learn to notice what's actually happening in your body, and how to stop overriding it.
Learn why your body takes the time it takes, and how to stop rushing it.
Learn what your own arousal actually needs, and how to give it just that.
Learn how to (and get permission to!) touch yourself, like your body is something worth taking your time with.
Learn to feel your own pleasure, without needing anyone else in the room.
This is a guided journey, not a self-study course. I am with you daily, for 15 days, through a private Telegram channel.
Day 1: Live 30 minute call. We open the container together.
Days 1 - 15: Daily audio and video, plus a thought prompt, straight to your phone. Fully private.
Day 9: Live 60+ minute teaching and Q&A with me. Can't make it live? Send your question ahead of time. Recording shared in the channel after.
Day 15: Live 30 minute call. We close the container together.
5 extra days after day 15: so if life gets in the way, you have room to catch up without pressure.
Optional community channel: connect with the other women doing this alongside you, and share what you're comfortable sharing, at your own pace.
€27. One time.
Come back to yourself.
For partnered and single women both.
This isn't couples therapy. It isn't about fixing him, or finding her.
This is about you. Your body. Your desire, whether it's gone missing next to someone, or just disappeared on your own.
If you're partnered and sex has stopped happening, these 15 days aren’t going to negotiate that with your partner for you. (Because what is the point of negotiating sex that you don’t really want to have?).
What it is going to do is start with you, waking your own body back up, so that you can make choices about sex, and orgasm, and pleasure that are real for you.
If you're single and you haven't felt connected to your own sexuality in years, you don't need a partner in the room for this work. You never did.
Your body is yours before it's anyone else's. And so is your orgasm, your pleasure, your arousal and turn on. So that’s where we start.
You don’t have to do this alone
Hi, I’m Naomi
Fifteen years ago my life looked good on paper. Fun, adventure, a good job, a slightly unreasonable love of mid-century furniture.
Underneath it, I was using food to numb myself. Completely checked out of my own body. Sex was boring when it happened at all, painful sometimes, and there was no orgasm in sight. Just a kind of underlying sadness that I couldn’t shake.
A friend asked me over tea, you're not really okay, are you?
That question started a long road. Meditation. Energy work. Sexual practices. Movement. A lot of sitting with myself when I would have rather been anywhere else. Honestly, anywhere else! We can compare notes on procrastination techniques, I’ve got some good ones!
The whole time, if I’m honest, I was hoping that I would find someone who would fix me.
But that’s not what happened.
What happened instead was freedom. Pleasure that was mine. Arousal and desire that came from my own body, not from waiting on someone else to give them to me. Orgasms I didn't have to ask permission for.
And it changed everything else. My skin. My confidence. How I speak. Whether I actually like my life. (And I do now! I really do).
I'm a degree-trained naturopath, trained in The Desilets Method, in The Gaia Method, in pelvic floor work, in trauma-informed touch. I've walked across Spain and Norway. I've foraged plants on an island in the English Channel. I've slept under stars with lions roaring nearby.
All of that is the icing on the cake, but the actual cake is my relationship with myself and my own body.
I live on the edge of a forest in Croatia now, with a Croatian man I love, still working through my own internal stuff, still learning, still practicing what I teach because it's a responsibility, not a finished project. (And boy, don’t relationships give us material to work with!?!).
15 Days to Feel It Again is a doorway into that same work. Fifteen days is enough to start.
There is no need to rush.
Finally some FAQs
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Yes, completely. This isn't about fixing a relationship or finding the right partner. This is about you, your sexuality, your pleasure. Most of the work happens in your relationship with yourself.
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This is trauma informed. Every woman here is treated as powerful and capable of doing this work. Part of that is being honest about scope: if something surfaces that needs more than 15 days can hold, I will tell you, and I will point you toward the right support. If you're not sure whether this is the right fit, message me before you join and we'll talk it through.
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All the material stays up for 5 days after we close, so you have room to catch up without feeling rushed.
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No. Nothing you'll see is explicit. But we will talk openly about sex, orgasm, masturbation, and pleasure, because avoiding those words hasn't gotten any of us very far.
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Only people who've joined will be in it, and everyone is asked not to share the link outside the group. Sharing your own experience is optional and only happens in the separate community channel, never in the main channel, so it stays manageable and safe.
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You'll stay on my email list, get access to my free offerings, and hear about what's next when it's ready. No pressure either way