Work with me
Painful sex, whether it feels like a wall, like agony on the inside, like burning acid on the outside, or a mix of all three.
General aching, pain and rawness in the vulva, anus, penineum and vaginal opening.
Desire that went away a long time ago. Every tip, trick and toy they’ve tried hasn’t brought it back. They still want to be with their partner, but the desire just isn’t there.
Arousal that doesn’t build. Even when they’re willing, there’s no turn on, no wetness, and not much pleasure.
Orgasm is a distant dream and it doesn’t seem fair.
Here is what women tell me most often:
It’s my deepest gratitude to you to agree to talk with me. I was comfortable to use words like sex, pain and what was going on. Also to be heard and to tell my pain was valid was a big thing. You definitely have a calm and healing voice which made me believe that practices which you asked me repeat everyday would help me ease the pain and it did. I cried when I was able to have sex with minimum pain. I am very thank full to you and the work you are doing. I still have some healing to do yet but now I believe I can live life pain free all because of you.
A, India
Working with Naomi was such an amazing process & transformative experience. It has fixed my incontinence issue (in just 3 weeks) but I got so much more out of it too. A greater sense of my body & what she’s capable of, but also a deeper connection with myself & increased love for myself too.
T, Australia
My Approach
Painful sex, low desire and no orgasm usually have more than one cause: the body, the mind, your history, your beliefs, and what’s happening in your life now. Whatever the cause, these experiences aren’t a character flaw, and they don’t mean you’re doing something wrong.
Most of what’s out there skips past the body and the mind. Tips, tricks, toys, creams and medications can bring temporary relief, but they rarely change what’s happening underneath. When the relief fades, many women are back where they started, with a longer list of things they’ve tried.
My work starts with you: your body’s signals, what hurts, what responds, and what stays numb. We rebuild trust between you and your body slowly. That takes time, so I don’t rush it, and I don’t pretend a quick fix exists.
When you work with me, you won’t be pushed. You might be challenged, and you’ll be encouraged to face the truth. You will be held and supported, with compassion. I’ve been there, and I know what it’s like.
Things are going well!
I did my first cervical screening test the other day. I was incredibly proud of myself. I have been putting it off for year and the attempts I last had we so painful I couldn’t continue. But this time was completely easy the stairs aligned I think.
A, Australia
I have had a great orgasm yesterday!
And it seems like I’m choosing more for ‘me’, for what’s good for me..
something like that… ?
And.. I feel pretty happy in general .. who knows what it all did..
M, Holland
The practical details:
When you work with me 1:1, you’re stepping into a deeply personalised, transformative journey.
We work together for a minimum of four months. Changes in pain, arousal and orgasm take time, and this gives your body the space to respond.
Practical details:
Online zoom calls with me, one every two weeks or as you need.
WhatsApp support between sessions, so you are fully supported the whole way.
Practices designed specifically for your body and your situation, not a generic programme.
Guidance all the way to lasting change, so you’re never left guessing what to do next
What you can expect.
You’ll learn how your body is responding: what hurts and when, how your arousal builds, what your nervous system does around touch and sex. You’ll have a clearer understanding of your body by the end of our time together, and a way of working with it that you can keep up for the rest of your life.
How I work.
I have been supporting women for 20 years, and one thing that I have learnt is that we negotiate everything! The speed we move, the amount of homeplay you do, the directions that we will go in. I will be your guide and support, but we are a team on this journey.
I’ll tell you the truth, including when I see something that needs a closer look, and I’ll explain what I’m seeing and why. I’ve worked with hundreds of women, and I will share with you what I have learnt.
I work with a small number of clients at any one time, so you get my full attention, not a generalised programme off a shelf. Working together is €1,500 for four months, and payment plans are available. If you’d like to know whether it’s right for you, let’s talk.
I am very excited today because for the first time I was able to have intercourse with complete penetration! The pain was 80% lesser compared to previous attempts. I could feel the area getting more flexible as well. Thank you so much, it happened because of your cooperation and suggestions.
S, Bangladesh
I’m so happy. Even with doing your suggested exercises only when I remember, so not obsessively, I’m feeling so bloody amazing. Wet, juicy, alive. Thank you again.
A, Australia
Meet your guide:
Hi, I’m Naomi. For years, I was shut down. I wasn’t orgasming. I was hiding myself, living with genital and sexual pain, and silently struggling. Eventually, something in me whispered: There has to be more than this. And thank goodness past-me listened, because that’s when everything began to change.
At the time, I was already working as a naturopath, helping hundreds of women heal and thrive. But as I began to explore my own sexuality and take those first, terrifying steps toward healing, I started to see something profound: our sensuality and sexuality aren’t separate from our well-being, they’re essential to it.
That realization transformed my life, and the lives of my clients.
Today, I have the absolute privilege of doing the work I was born for. I'm a genital pain and sexual pleasure expert, and I support hundreds of women each year to reclaim their bodies, awaken their desire, and live turned-on, pleasure-filled lives.
And personally? After years of painful relationships and deep loneliness, I’m now in a deeply loving, playful, passionate relationship with my life partner. Intimacy has become a space of joy, connection, laughter, and deep, embodied pleasure.
Thank you for setting me on this path. I am glad I came across you. Honest, authentic, gentle, with a clear message, without false promises and with much compassion.
J, Netherlands
I'm so happy I found you, your teachings are helping me a lot.
C, Netherlands