I’m Naomi Harris. I help women with painful sex and low desire.

Naturopath & 1:1 online coach. Gentle, body-led, at your pace.

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Issues with sex are both a gift and a teacher

It doesn’t matter how old you are, or where you come from, If you’re having challenges with your genitals or your sex life, it’s not a failure and it’s nothing to be ashamed of.

Whether your experience is pain, numbness, disconnection, no orgasm, or something else entirely, your body is not your enemy. What is happening is a signal from the deepest part of you, asking to be seen, heard, and noticed.

Deep, connected, whole being pleasure and intimacy is waiting for you. Are you ready?

{FREE} 15 real questions to help you discover who you are sexually.

Sex feels like something you have to do, rather than something you want? Or just curious what’s possible? Start here.

NOBODY HAS EVER ASKED ME: 15 questions to help you find out who you are as a sexual woman.

Print them out, take your time, and be honest with yourself. Your answers stay with you unless you choose to share them.

You’ll get instant access through your inbox. I’ll also send you my newsletter ‘Notes on Pleasure’ on Thursdays. You can unsubscribe at any time of course!

  • (Online Coaching) It’s my deepest gratitude to you to agree to talk with me. I was comfortable to use words like sex, pain and what was going on. Also to be heard and to tell my pain was valid was a big thing. You definitely have a calm and healing voice which made me believe that practices which you asked me repeat everyday would help me ease the pain and it did. I cried when I was able to have sex with minimum pain. I am very thank full to you and the work you are doing. I still have some healing to do yet but now I believe I can live life pain free all because of you.

    A, India

  • (Online Coaching) Finding Naomi, is the best that could have happen to me. In a desert full of pain, suffering and anxiety she still believed that I‘m not broken and that there is a chance for me to heal. I lost the hope that I will heal after 4.5 years of pain. After only one week I realised that she was right. I got a bit of a pain release because she taught me how to breathe correctly into my pelvis and gave me some advice how to get back the connection to my body. The hardest part on my journey was that I thought there is some skin adhesion at my clitoris that no doctor believed in. Naomi helped me to deal with it. After three weeks of work the tissue released almost completely. That took so much anxiety and pain away from me.

    A, Germany

  • (The Pleasure Path Bodywork Method) Naomi's work touched me deeply. Her capacity to attune to my body’s needs was immense. I had sessions with her in a depth that no other dearmouring practicioner was yet able to provide. I will definitively work again with her.

    J, Switzerland

  • (Group program) Thank you for setting me on this path. I am glad I came across you. Honest, authentic, gentle, with a clear message, without false promises and with much compassion.

    J, Netherlands

  • (Online Coaching) I worked with Naomi in relation to endometrial pain I was suffering with during my menstrual cycle. My pain was so severe it would cause me to pass out. It was so refreshing to work with Naomi, someone who I felt was on the same page as me and had similar belief systems. Following my time spent with Naomi and practicing the activities she suggested I am very happy to say I have now had three cycles with zero pain. I am really happy with these results.

    J, Australia

  • (Online Coaching) I’m so happy. Even with doing your suggested exercises only when I remember, so not obsessively, I’m feeling so bloody amazing. Wet, juicy, alive. Thank you again.

    A, Australia

  • (Group Program) Naomi has helped me realise… that I have been subconsciously thinking and acting without regard for my body’s limits. From pushing my body past it’s comfort to realising I carry a lot of stress and shame which is a trigger for my pain. Naomi has such a kind gentle nature that makes you feel instantly safe.

    K, Australia

  • (Group Program) Working with Naomi was such an amazing process & transformative experience. It has fixed my incontinence issue (in just 3 weeks) but I got so much more out of it too. A greater sense of my body & what she’s capable of, but also a deeper connection with myself & increased love for myself too.

    T, Australia

  • (Online Coaching) I am soooooo grateful for our work together! I felt so supported and safe, and learned oodles, and the pain has disappeared so thank you thank you thank you.

    A, Australia

  • (The Pleasure Path Bodywork Method) Yes it was a year ago. Also on a warm day like today. It was very special and healing on a deap level. And the orgasm pain was totally gone. After just spending a few hours with you. It impacted so much in that area, and more.

    M, The Netherlands

  • (Online coaching) I came to Naomi with a very sensitive topic: I never had an orgasm during sex with men. And sometimes I had pain during sex (just few poses). We had a very productive online session and she showed me 2 simple exercises (both take 2-3min a day max). I actually couldn’t believe those could work, but still did them. And I was soooo shocked to get my first orgasm with a man just few weeks later!! And for the first time it was a vaginal orgasm!! Big thanks Naomi

    E, Germany

  • (Online coaching) I had 8 sessions with a Psychosexual Therapist and saw no changes. You have offered way more tonight. Thanks xxx

    T, Italy

  • (Online coaching) When I do my homeplay practices all my anxiety disappears and my body feels safe, I feel safe, I am relaxed and calm and I even feel a state of relaxation around my vagina. I feel a feeling of warmth in that area, of relaxation.

    B, Romania

  • (Online coaching) Working with you has done more for me than a year of therapy with the NHS.

    Z, United Kingdom

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Meet Naomi:

Naomi Harris, wearing an orange dress, sitting on green plants near rocky coastline with the ocean and sunset in the background.

Hi, I’m Naomi. For years, I was shut down. I wasn’t orgasming. I was hiding myself, living with genital and sexual pain, and silently struggling. Eventually, something in me whispered: There has to be more than this. And thank goodness past-me listened, because that’s when everything began to change.

At the time, I was already working as a naturopath, helping hundreds of women heal and thrive. But as I began to explore my own sexuality and take those first, terrifying steps toward healing, I started to see something profound: our sensuality and sexuality aren’t separate from our well-being, they’re essential to it.

That realization transformed my life, and the lives of my clients.

Today, I have the absolute privilege of doing the work I was born for. I'm a genital pain and sexual pleasure expert, and I support hundreds of women each year to reclaim their bodies, awaken their desire, and live turned-on, pleasure-filled lives.

And personally? After years of painful relationships and deep loneliness, I’m now in a deeply loving, playful, passionate relationship with my life partner. Intimacy has become a space of joy, connection, laughter, and deep, embodied pleasure.

Read my whole story