I’m Naomi Harris. I help women with painful sex and low desire.
Naturopath & 1:1 online coach. Gentle, body-led, at your pace.
Issues with sex are both a gift and a teacher
It doesn’t matter how old you are, how much money you make, where you come from, or how you identify, if you’re experiencing challenges with your genitals or your sex life, it’s not a failure. It’s not something to be ashamed of. It’s an invitation to slow down, to listen deeply, and to open to healing and deeper self-understanding.
Issues with sex are rarely just about your body or about sex. They can be a mirror to your relationship with yourself, your connection to others, and your past experiences that your body has carried for years.
Whether your experience is pain, numbness, disconnection, not being able to orgasm, or something else entirely, your body is not your enemy. What is happening is a signal from the deepest part of you, asking to be seen, heard, and noticed.
Deep, connected, whole being pleasure and intimacy is waiting for you. Are you ready?
{FREE} Real talk and real questions to help you discover who you are sexually.
I’ve gathered together the questions that I ask my 1:1 clients to support them down their path from pain, shut down, and no desire, to the sensation and turn on that they longed for,
and put them all in this handy ebook.
You can print this out and take all the time you need to discover who you are.
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Meet Naomi:
Hi, I’m Naomi. For years, I was shut down. I wasn’t orgasming. I was hiding myself, living with genital and sexual pain, and silently struggling. Eventually, something in me whispered: There has to be more than this. And thank goodness past-me listened, because that’s when everything began to change.
At the time, I was already working as a naturopath, helping hundreds of women heal and thrive. But as I began to explore my own sexuality and take those first, terrifying steps toward healing, I started to see something profound: our sensuality and sexuality aren’t separate from our well-being, they’re essential to it.
That realization transformed my life, and the lives of my clients.
Today, I have the absolute privilege of doing the work I was born for. I'm a genital pain and sexual pleasure expert, and I support hundreds of women each year to reclaim their bodies, awaken their desire, and live turned-on, pleasure-filled lives.
And personally? After years of painful relationships and deep loneliness, I’m now in a deeply loving, playful, passionate relationship with my life partner. Intimacy has become a space of joy, connection, laughter, and deep, embodied pleasure.