BECOMING

9 months to grow into the woman you were always meant to be

A GROUP MENTORSHIP WITH NAOMI HARRIS

Is your body is carrying stories of silence, shame, or pain? Patterns that keep you shut down? A hope that there is more to life than this?

Maybe you are yearning for sex that actually feels good. Honest intimacy. A relationship with yourself that does not vanish the moment someone else is in the room. You might be living with pain, numbness, or a deep, private loneliness and you are ready for something to change at the root.

Or maybe you’re a woman who works with other women and want to deepen your toolkit, because you know that your own becoming is part of your service.

This is your invitation into BECOMING, a journey to become the woman that you are meant to be. Transform your relationship with yourself, awaken your body, reclaim your sexuality, and reshape the way you live, love, and relate.

Over nine deep, beautiful, rigorously honest months, you will walk step by step through BECOMING. You will not be given quick fixes or spiritual bypass. You will be given space, tools, guidance, and community to come home to yourself, in real time, in your actual life. Together.

BECOMING is a 9 month guided journey for women who are ready to reshape their lives.

Next live group starts:
Friday March 20, 2026

Spaces are limited to ensure personal attention and intimate group dynamics.

I am ready to BECOME myself

Every one of us deserves to become the woman that we are here to be.

Imagine giving yourself nine months to heal in a way that lasts for the rest of your life. Nine months to grow into the woman you have been sensing inside yourself for years.

Are you tired of feeling alone with your questions, your longings, or your pain?
Are you noticing that the strategies that once helped you cope are no longer enough?
Are you ready to stop circling around your truth and finally step into it?

Maybe you’re at a life threshold, maybe you are tired of disappointing sex, maybe you have realised that you need a different kind of intimacy and relating, or that it’s time to finally get the words out you really want to say.

Let this mentorship be the turning point.
The moment you begin BECOMING the woman you know you are meant to be.

Over these nine months you will be guided through the tools and practices I have refined over two decades of working with thousands of women. This is not theory. This is not inspiration. This is the work that creates real, lasting change.

It is deep.
It is sustainable.
And it returns you to yourself.

And although the work goes deep, it will also be human, nourishing, and full of moments of relief and discovery. You will not be alone. You will be supported, seen, and met as a whole woman.

  • (Group Program) Working with Naomi was such an amazing process & transformative experience. It has fixed my incontinence issue (in just 3 weeks) but I got so much more out of it too. A greater sense of my body & what she’s capable of, but also a deeper connection with myself & increased love for myself too. It pushed me in ways that was gentle but became so apparent that I had to choose ME & because of it I am NOW actually chasing my dream of what I have wanted to do ever since I was little but didn't have the courage to do, so it really has been TRANSFORMATIVE for me. Naomi was so amazing at holding space & guiding us so gently that it was always so much fun & felt so safe. Thankyou SOOOO much Naomi with all of my heart

    T, Australia

  • (Group program) Thank you for setting me on this path. I am glad I came across you. Honest, authentic, gentle, with a clear message, without false promises and with much compassion.

    J, Netherlands

  • (Group Program) I have never seen or heard this material before, and I've had these breasts all my life! I've never seen them in that way, and to be honest: I had NO idea that they are so gorgeous! I am suddenly discovering these amazing parts of my body that I have scolded and belittled all my life. I am so grateful for this. Thank you.

    M, Sweden

  • (Group Program) Naomi was supportive and respectful and explained everything from a sacred perspective. I felt as though I could cope with whatever arose because of the support that was provided.

    D, Australia

  • (Group Program) Naomi has helped me realise… that I have been subconsciously thinking and acting without regard for my body’s limits. From pushing my body past it’s comfort to realising I carry a lot of stress and shame which is a trigger for my pain. Naomi has such a kind gentle nature that makes you feel instantly safe.

    K, Australia

  • (Group Program) Naomi provides a beautiful sense of safety through her comfortable, embodied presence and passion for the work. I’ve learnt how much deeper my own boundaries and safety and advocacy can become to facilitate a deeper experience of pleasure in my body.

    C, Australia

  • (Group Program) Naomi is absolutely gifted at holding a safe, gentle space for women to slow down and lean into practicing deep embodied self care. I have experienced significant improvements in pelvic health and aliveness, I feel more vitally connected to myself, my body and pleasure as a pathway to self-realisation. If feeling safe in your body and more pleasure, aliveness and gorgeous in your own skin sounds good to you, don’t hesitate to work with Naomi.

    E, Australia

We have been taught to believe that healing comes from trying harder. It doesn’t. Trying harder is what has got us here: exhausted, overwhelmed, lonely and undersexed.

Healing comes from slowly, gently learning who you are and how to stay with yourself, and letting your body lead you home. NAOMI HARRIS

The nine months of BECOMING are a carefully held journey into the depths of who you are. This work is a unique blending of somatics, sacred embodied self knowing, ritual, sexuality, personal myth, emotional unravelling, and deep sensual presence. It is a space where you grow by meeting yourself with honesty, tenderness, and courage.

Across these months you will be guided into the layers of your past, the truth of your present, and the possibilities of your future. You will come to understand how your patterns were shaped, how your body has been protecting you, and how to integrate the parts of yourself that have been waiting to be met.

Each theme builds upon the one that came before it. Month by month you create a coherent map of your own becoming. You gain the emotional and somatic literacy to stay with yourself, the tools to cultivate pleasure and intimacy, and the inner strength to live from a place of worth and clarity.

It is about returning to the woman you were always meant to be.

What you will learn inside BECOMING:

How your female body actually works
You will learn the truth of the incredible wonder that is your female anatomy, arousal, and pleasure, not the simplified and dumbed down versions most of us were taught. It will blow your mind!

Tools to awaken your erotic aliveness
You will explore practices that help your body feel more responsive, alive, connected, and available to pleasure, with yourself and with others. Every one of us is filled with the sleeping potential of more erotic pleasure, and this is how yours wakes up.

How your nervous system shapes your intimacy
Through education and somatic practices, you will deeply understand how your female nervous system responds, protects, opens, closes, and heals, and why your patterns are not personal flaws but survival strategies. They are here to be celebrated and healed.

What sexuality looks like beyond performance
You will meet your erotic self outside of pressure, expectation, and everything that you have been sold that your sexuality is. Discover what turns you on from the inside and what your personal flavour of sexuality is.

How to stay with yourself through stressors and thresholds
Motherhood, perimenopause, menopause and all the other thresholds of a woman’s life require new pathways of connection. So do those high stress moments of life that try to take you away from yourself. You will learn how to stay rooted in yourself through each one.

Why pleasure is essential for healing
Talk therapy and trauma work alone cannot bring you into fullness. Pleasure is the part that restores aliveness, trust, and the capacity to receive. And your particular flavour of pleasure is waiting to be discovered…

How to turn yourself on from the inside
You will learn how to kindle desire, build confidence, and follow what feels good in a way that feels true for you. Desire because of desire, not because of obligation.

How to communicate with clarity and truth
You will learn how to speak your wants, needs, limits, and boundaries with confidence and care, without shrinking or overriding yourself.

The Map of BECOMING:

This is the nine month journey of a woman growing herself from the inside out. A return to what is true, layer by layer, month by month.
There is no rushing this. We are growing into it.

  • BONUS: Opening ritual

    On the night of the solstice, we open to BECOMING.

    We begin in ritual because ritual marks a threshold. It tells the body and the heart that something new is starting. In this moment, you choose yourself. You step into the journey with intention.

    In Support: Our Feet:

    We come to standing.
    We let the ground hold us.
    We feel our connection to the earth, to belonging, to the invisible network of women walking this path beside us.
    We let our feet remind us that we are supported, that we do not do this work alone.

    Together, as a new community, we honour our starting point. We witness each other in the honesty and bravery it takes to begin. We lean toward what is possible. We lean toward the women we are becoming.

    Together with this new community, we honor our starting point, witness each other in bravery, and lean towards the possibility of BECOMING the women that we came here to be.

  • This month is the beginning. The spark. The quiet flash of light inside you that says yes. It is the first permission. The soft, steady bravery of choosing yourself. Conception is not dramatic. It is intimate. It is the moment you turn inward and recognise that something in you is ready to grow.

    In Support: Our SKIN:

    Skin is where everything begins. It is the boundary between you and the world. The first threshold of change. The membrane of self intimacy.

    To begin BECOMING, you begin by meeting yourself at your own surface. You meet your skin with presence instead of rushing past it. You let your touch become a language of belonging.

    When you treat your skin as sacred, you teach your body that you are worth tending. Worth touching. Worth inhabiting.
    This is the first step of your becoming.

  • In the womb, implantation is the moment life anchors itself into the uterine wall. It is the act of attaching, receiving support, and choosing a place to grow.

    This month mirrors that process inside you. Implantation becomes the moment you let yourself settle. You root into your own body instead of hovering above your life. You meet yourself as the one steady guide you can trust.

    In Support: Our Heart

    Around day 18 to 19 after conception, the primitive heart tube begins to form, and around day 21 to 23, the first heartbeat be sensed.

    The heart supports this month by helping you anchor into emotional truth. It carries your wisdom, your boundaries, your capacity for connection.

  • In the womb, this is the time when the first structures of the body begin to take shape. Organs emerge. The nervous system begins forming pathways. Identity takes its earliest form.

    This month mirrors that inner architecture. You begin to understand the patterns that shaped you. You see the first outlines of who you have been and who you are becoming. You start recognising your origins, your adaptations, and the foundations your life has been built upon.

    In Support: Our Nervous System

    The nervous system is the original architecture of the self. It governs safety, belonging, and your capacity to stay present. This month it supports you by helping you understand the patterns of activation, shutdown, and protection that shaped your story. It becomes the ground where new pathways can form, slowly and steadily, from the inside out.

  • In the womb, this is a time of settling and shaping. The pelvis of the forming body becomes the basin that will hold strength, stability, and the capacity for movement and growth. It is the central ground of becoming.

    This month mirrors that grounding inside you. You return to the basin of your own pelvis as a place of truth. You learn to feel its weight, its steadiness, and its intelligence. You begin to recognise how the pelvis holds your history, your tension, your instincts, and your capacity for pleasure and belonging.

    In Support: Our Pelvis

    The pelvis is the foundation of the body. It carries your centre of gravity, your sense of safety, and the roots of your sensual and emotional life. This month it supports you by helping you meet the places where you brace, grip, collapse, or disconnect. It becomes the ground you learn to inhabit, so that the rest of you can grow with more stability and ease.

  • BONUS live pelvic mapping

    Pelvic mapping is an intimate practice of meeting the landscape of your own pelvis with clarity, presence, and respect. In this session, you learn to listen to the places where you hold, the places where you soften, and the places where your body has been protecting you.

    Mapping gives you a way to understand your patterns without judgement. It helps you recognise where tension, numbness, or bracing have taken root, and where there is space for openness, pleasure, and grounding.

    This live class offers a guided, supported exploration that brings you into deeper relationship with the centre of your body. It is slow, attuned work that helps you build trust with yourself and create more ease, stability, and connection in your pelvic basin.

  • In the womb, this is the stage when the body begins to shape the pathways of sexuality. Sensitivity increases. The foundations of pleasure, responsiveness, and erotic identity start to take form.

    This month mirrors that inner awakening inside you. You turn toward your own erotic nature with honesty and curiosity. You begin to sense desire as something alive and personal. You meet the parts of yourself that have been waiting for softness, presence, and truth. This is the month where your sensual self starts to come forward.

    In Support: Our Sexual Organs

    The sexual organs hold memory, instinct, and the potential for pleasure. They carry the truth of your boundaries and the clarity of your needs. This month they support you by helping you listen to your own erotic language. You begin to recognise what feels right for you, what opens you, and what brings you home to yourself.

  • BONUS Salon: Sexuality, your way.

    The Sexuality Salon is a guided space where we explore desire, pleasure, intimacy, and erotic truth in a way that is grounded, nuanced, and deeply respectful of your body. This is not performative sexuality. It is personal, internal, and held with care.

    In this salon, you are invited to explore the questions that shape your erotic life.
    What opens you.
    What closes you.
    What your body has been asking for.
    What you are finally ready to name.

    We bring language to experiences that have lived in silence. We explore the difference between performing pleasure and feeling it. We unravel cultural conditioning, personal history, and the myths that have shaped your sexuality. This is a space where your erotic self can be met without pressure, expectation, or comparison.

    You are guided through practices that help you listen to your body, recognise your boundaries, and understand your unique erotic rhythm. You learn how to cultivate desire from the inside out, how to stay present with sensation, and how to let your pleasure belong to you.

    The salon is spacious, reflective, and transformative.
    It gives you a place to ask the questions you have not had the chance to ask.
    A place to be honest.
    A place to feel.
    A place to discover what your sexuality becomes when it is held with reverence instead of judgement.

    This exploration often changes how women relate to themselves for the rest of their lives.
    Because once you meet your erotic truth, you do not forget it.

  • In the womb, this is a time of expansion. The body grows quickly. Strength increases. Awareness sharpens. There is more capacity, more responsiveness, more presence.

    This month mirrors that expansion inside you. You begin to step into a clearer sense of who you are. Your self worth strengthens. Your inner structure feels steadier. You start making choices that reflect your truth instead of your fear. This is the month where you grow into more of yourself.

    In Support: Our Eyes

    The eyes are how you see yourself and how you see your life. They shape your perception, your clarity, and your willingness to look at what is real. This month they support you by helping you witness your own growth with honesty. You begin to see where you have changed, what you want, and what is no longer aligned. The eyes become a source of recognition and self trust.

  • In the womb, this is the time when the systems of the forming body begin working together. Breath movements, sleep rhythms, and coordinated patterns take shape. The body practices what it will soon need. Everything begins to integrate.

    This month mirrors that inner coherence inside you. You start living what you have learned. Your boundaries, your pleasure, your emotional truth, and your self worth begin to settle into place. You feel more like yourself. You begin to move through the world with a steadier centre.

    In Support: Our Womb

    The womb is the place where integration is held. It is the container that supports growth, rhythm, and deep inner knowing. This month it supports you by helping you gather the pieces of yourself and bring them into alignment. The womb becomes a place of belonging, where your new identity begins to take root as lived truth.

  • BONUS Ritual: The Power of Your Womb

    This ritual gives your womb something she may never have had before.
    Permission to be seen.
    Permission to be heard.
    Permission to speak as the truth carrier and oracle of your life.

    In this practice, you are guided into a direct relationship with the deepest centre of your body. You listen to the wisdom that has lived there for years, often ignored or overridden. You meet the place in you that knows when something is right, when something is off, and when it is time to change.

    This ritual is not symbolic. It is a direct encounter with the intelligence of your own womb. You begin to understand how she holds memory, boundaries, intuition, and the rhythms that shape your entire inner world.

    Many women describe this experience as life changing.
    Because once your womb is truly heard, you cannot go back to abandoning her.

    This practice strengthens your sense of belonging in your own body and anchors the identity you have been growing throughout this journey.

  • In the womb, this is the time when the body begins to prepare for birth. The fetus descends into the pelvis. Space shifts. Positioning changes. The body lets go of what it no longer needs and gathers strength for the transition ahead.

    This month mirrors that preparation inside you. You begin to release the patterns, identities, and loyalties that cannot move with you into the next chapter. You feel what is ready to fall away. You sense yourself orienting toward a new way of living. This is the month where you prepare for the emergence of who you have become.

    In Support: Our Spine

    The spine is your central axis. It holds your structure, your alignment, and your capacity to stand in yourself. This month it supports you by helping you stay rooted and steady as you let go of what no longer fits. The spine becomes the place where you feel your readiness, your strength, and the integrity of your inner stance.

  • IIn the womb, this is the moment of emergence. The body opens. The new life moves through the threshold from one world into another. Birth is not only arrival. It is revelation. It is the completion of a long, steady becoming.

    This month mirrors that emergence inside you. You step into the woman you have been growing all year. You claim her. You recognise her. You begin to live from the truth you have cultivated. This is the month where you cross your own threshold and come into the world as yourself.

    In Support: The Whole Body

    Birth is a full body event. Every system, every muscle, every breath participates in the passage. This month your entire body supports you by helping you inhabit yourself with coherence and presence. You feel the alignment of your heart, your pelvis, your spine, your breath, your womb, your skin, and your eyes. The whole of you arrives.

  • BONUS Ritual: Crossing the Threshold

    We end in ritual because endings matter. They mark the moment when you recognise what you have become. In this closing ceremony, you stand at the threshold of your new life and witness yourself with honesty, pride, and reverence.

    This ritual gathers everything you have grown through. The softness of conception. The rooting of implantation. The grounding, the awakening, the movement, the integration, the release, and the emergence. You honour the woman you were, the woman you grew into, and the woman you are now living as.

    Here, you name what is complete.
    You name what is beginning.
    You offer thanks to your own body for carrying you through this nine month becoming.

    This ritual is not about saying goodbye.
    It is about recognising that you have crossed into a life where you no longer abandon yourself.
    You stand in the centre of your body, your truth, and your worth.

    In the closing ritual, you take your first steps as the woman you have spent these nine months growing.
    You step forward with intention.
    You step forward with clarity.
    You step forward as yourself.

There comes a time when a woman realises she can no longer abandon herself to keep her life intact. She feels the cost in her body. She feels the ache of the parts she has left behind. And she knows that something has to change at the root. NAOMI HARRIS

BECOMING Is For You If:

• You feel a pull toward a deeper, more honest relationship with your body, your sexuality, and your inner life.
• You are tired of navigating intimacy, desire, or pain alone and you want support that is grounded, skilled, and real.
• You sense that your old coping strategies are no longer enough and you are ready to grow beyond them.
• You crave a community and a place where your intelligence, your sensitivity, and your complexity are respected.
• You want intimacy that feels nourishing instead of performative.
• You are ready to stop abandoning yourself in relationships and start choosing yourself with clarity.
• You want to understand your body not as a problem to fix, but as a source of wisdom and belonging.
• You are willing to show up for yourself daily and move gently but steadily into a new way of being.
• You are ready for change that is sustainable, embodied, and rooted in truth, not quick fixes.
• You feel the sense that it is time.

BECOMING Is Not For You If:

• You want fast results without doing steady, embodied work.
• You are looking for surface-level techniques instead of deep, honest transformation.
• You are unwilling to meet your body with presence, patience, and respect.
• You are not open to examining your patterns, stories, and relational habits.
• You prefer inspiration without integration.
• You want someone to tell you what to do rather than learning how to listen to yourself.
• You are not ready to step into a community of women and be witnessed in your becoming.
• You are looking for a purely informational program rather than a lived, somatic experience.
• You are not able or willing to make space for yourself over nine months.

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BECOMING: a 9 month journey to grow into the woman you were always meant to be

We begin on ‍Friday March 20, 2026

Spaces are limited to ensure personal attention and intimate group dynamics.

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BECOMING is a nine month guided journey for women who are ready to grow themselves from the inside out. It is a slow, embodied transformation that follows the arc of human gestation, mirroring the depth, precision, and timing of real growth. Each month builds upon the one before it, creating change that is steady, integrated, and sustainable.

By the end of the nine months, you will have built a relationship with yourself that is honest, grounded, and unshakeably yours.

Included:

The 9 stages of BECOMING: a monthly 60 - 90 minute video teaching on the theme of the month, prerecorded so that you can watch and rewatch as you need

BECOMING in Sisterhood: a monthly 90+ minute live call to connect in community, with live coaching, practices, celebrations and support

5 bonus live events: included are opening and closing rituals, a pelvic mapping class, sexuality salon and a life changing womb ritual

Monthly workbooks: filled with reflection prompts and exercises

Embodied Practices: guided explorations and somatic exercises that awaken your body as your own teacher and healer

Community: a private Substack community to connect with me and the women who are walking this path alongside you.

Recordings: of all of the teachings, calls, embodied practices and bonuses will be recorded and available for you to download and keep

Optional: A pen to paper pen-pal who is also BECOMING, so that you can build connection and friendship away from the screen.

Hello beautiful woman, I’m Naomi, your guide to BECOMING.

My own BECOMING began in silence. For years, I was shut down. I wasn’t orgasming. I lived with sexual pain, hiding myself and pretending everything was fine. I followed every empty, miserable relationship with times of being a hermit and hiding myself away. Inside, I felt broken. Until one day a whisper came: There has to be more than this.

Following the whisper was terrifying, but it led me to everything. I began exploring my own sexuality, facing old fears, and slowly learning to trust my body again. I realised my own worth, and learnt how to ask for what I wanted and let the goodness in. And what I discovered changed me forever: I have worth, and I deserve to be the woman that I was born here to be.

That realization became the heart of my life’s work. Today I guide hundreds of women each year, supporting them to heal pain and numbness, awaken desire, relate from a place of worth and love, and discover what it feels like to live in a turned-on, joy-filled body.

And for me? After years of loneliness and painful relationships, I now share a deeply loving, playful, passionate partnership.

That is why I created BECOMING. Because self worth, intimacy, pleasure and connection are not a one-and-done, sorted it all out in a hurry situation.

You need the time, tools and the support, so that after BECOMING is over, you will know your worth and what you want and need, and you will be YOU. More you than ever before, unflinchingly, boldly YOU.

With self love, self worth and knowledge of yourself as the wind in your sails.

Let this be the time that you truly become yourself.

All of the FAQs!

  • We meet once a month for the main group call, plus five additional bonus live calls throughout the journey.

  • Please scroll further down the page to see the proposed schedule for the live calls.

    Please know that I am aware that those of you in the USA and Canada will not be having great call times at various times of the year depending on summer and winter time.

    Depending on where this group of women gather from, it may be possible to change the times to be more suitable for you, but it may also not be possible.

    I trust that since the calls are infrequent and will be rich and rewarding, the occasional discomfort of a bad call time can be tolerated.

  • Up to 2 hours per call

  • Live attendance is strongly recommended. The work lands more deeply when you are present, but replays will be available. And if you can’t make calls, let me know and I will make sure that you feel up to date and part of the group journey.

  • Yes. All calls and teachings will be recorded.

  • Through the private Substack community.

  • It is a private, hidden Substack space where all resources live. You can access it through the app on your phone or from your desktop. It’s also where we build connection and community.

  • Clear information, education, inspiration, reflection prompts, and a single place to gather everything, so your process stays organised and intentional.

  • If you choose to opt in, you’ll be randomly matched with another woman who also said yes. You’ll exchange postal addresses, and from there, it’s between the two of you.

  • The live calls plus fifteen to thirty minutes a day for practices, reflection, or integration.

  • Yes. I chose times to be as fair as possible, though they may not be ideal for everyone. Because calls are once a month (plus five bonus calls), I encourage you to attend live even if it’s late or very early for you.

  • You can save all materials for ongoing access.

  • For the duration of the journey. If the group wishes to continue afterwards, that is completely fine with me.

  • While every woman’s experiences and personal growth on this journey will be personal, I would expect some of the following:

    Personal Life

    • A clear understanding of what has shaped your body and sexuality.

    • Tools to steady your nervous system and stay connected.

    • Confidence in your desires and intuition.

    • The ability to love and relate without losing yourself.

    • A fuller sense of belonging in your body and everyday life.

    Intimate Life

    • The courage to speak your wants and limits.

    • Practices that open your body to pleasure safely.

    • Intimacy that honours your past and builds new pathways.

    • A reclamation of desire, pleasure, and orgasm on your terms.

    • Sex that feels nourishing, honest, playful, and alive.

    Everyday Life:

    • The ability to bring real honesty and clarity into your relationships.

    • Boundaries that protect your energy.

    • Trust in your yes and no, without abandoning yourself.

    • Skills to stay grounded when old patterns surface.

    • A deeper sense of purpose, power, and sexual freedom.

Logistics & Structure

  • Practices I’ve refined over twenty years of working with thousands of women. They work, ad they will be tailored to serve the group as deeply as possible. For more about me and my training, check out my About page.

  • Each month mirrors a stage of human development. You do not need to have had a child to benefit. Being born is enough.

  • It will be explicit, direct, and grounded. You never have to share anything you don’t want to. It is SELF SEXUALITY work, there will not be any partnered sexuality practices offered in this container.

  • This work welcomes your beliefs but is not tied to any one spiritual framework.

  • With sensitivity, clarity, and respect. You are seen as powerful and fully capable of reaching out for support when needed.

Content & Approach

  • Yes. This course is trauma-informed and everything is offered as an invitation, never a demand. I’m available for support if anything comes up along the way.

    However, please ensure that you are stable, able to care for yourself, or know how to access support if you need it. This program is not individual therapy.

    Reach out to me and let’s talk if you are not sure.

  • You are very welcome. If you need clarity before joining, reach out for a conversation with me.

  • I will be present in the group space and available for support.

  • No, sharing is always optional

  • Never. You choose your pace. Your body leads the way.

  • I will be available for support. If you know you benefit from mental-health support alongside deep work, I encourage you to have that in place.

  • Through the Substack community and private messages with me when needed.

  • Yes. That being said, if your mental health is currently unstable or you know group work might feel overwhelming, please reach out before joining so we can talk.

  • Clear boundaries, strong group agreements, confidentiality, a private community space, and my daily presence. This is a priority for me.

Safety & Support

  • Every woman’s journey is unique, but the intentional outcomes include deeper self-understanding, tools for emotional and nervous system regulation, stronger boundaries, clearer communication, a more rooted sense of self, and a reclamation of pleasure and desire on your terms.

Results & Outcomes

  • No. Any level of experience or inexperience is welcome. This mentorship is about your relationship with yourself, not your sexual history.

  • Perfect. This is a beautiful place to begin, and what you discover may surprise you.

  • No. You’ll never be asked to share anything you don’t want to. Some women choose to open up, others prefer to stay quiet and simply take in the teachings and practices. Both are welcome. Sexuality will be spoken about openly and directly, so come willing to listen even if you don’t want to speak.

  • That’s completely fine. All live sessions are recorded so you can watch in your own time. You’ll also be part of our dedicated private community space, where you can connect, share, and build relationships along the journey.

  • Yes, during the sexuality salon. Cameras will be off so no one can see you.

  • Only guided somatic and meditation practices. No sexual practices are done in view of others.

  • That’s normal. Cameras stay on during group calls so I can ensure your safety, but you never need to show your body or share anything that feels too much.

  • Yes. This work can be incredibly supportive, and what you discover over the nine months may be life-changing.

Sexuality & Comfort

  • Yes, there is a twelve-month plan offered. If you require something different, please reach out to discuss your needs.

  • There is a 30-day refund period when you sign up. After that, no refunds are available, as spaces are limited and your place is held for you.

    Take a moment to feel into yourself before you decide. A true yes usually feels steady, even if there are butterflies. It’s normal for doubts or “what ifs” to appear once you commit to something meaningful. If your inner yes is there, trust it. And if you need to talk it through or your circumstances change, you are welcome to reach out.

  • Please reach out directly to discuss your situation.

  • Yes. It would be a beautiful gift. Please make sure that they know what you are signing them up for!

Costs & Investment

  • Yes. This work is about your relationship with yourself.

  • Absolutely. This is about your internal world, not the gender of the people you love.

  • Yes. Everything you build here will support how you show up in dating.

    Because the focus is on you, and your relationship to yourself, others and the world, you may find that this mentorship is very supportive of dating as you will be clearer on your boundaries, your yes and not, and what it is that you really want.

  • Yes. When your relationship with yourself changes, your patterns shift. Because the focus is on you, and your relationship to yourself, others and the world, you may find that this mentorship is very supportive of healing your relationship dynamics as you will be clearer on your boundaries, your yes and not, and what it is that you really want.

Relationship context

  • Tune into your inner yes and no. Often fear can cloud clarity, but when you get still and listen, you usually know. I trust you to make the right choice for yourself.

  • Not a problem. You only need openness and curiosity.

  • Wonderful. This work usually complements it beautifully.

  • Beginners are welcome. Curiosity and willingness matter more than experience.

  • Not at all. Many participants are practitioners who use these tools personally and professionally.

  • You’re not alone. Listen to the podcast episode with my former client Maggie and see if her story resonates.

    https://pleasureisntjustsex.buzzsprout.com/2059699/episodes/18149222-maggie-s-story

  • Group work goes deeper in many ways. The shared field, community support, and collective momentum create a different kind of transformation.

Readiness & Suitability

Call Dates and Times

Please note that these times may be subject to slight change, depending on the worldwide location of the majority of the women who join.

March: Opening Ritual BONUS CALL

  • Berlin: Friday 20 March 2026, 19:00 pm

  • Melbourne: Saturday, 21 March 2026, 5am

  • New York: Friday, 20 March 2026, 2pm

  • London: Friday, 20 March 2026, 18:00

  • Los Angeles: Friday, 20 March 2026, 11am

May: Live Call (3)

  • Berlin: Saturday, 23 May 2026, 11:00

  • Melbourne: Saturday, 23 May 2026, 7pm

  • New York: Saturday, 23 May 2026, 5am

  • London: Saturday, 23 May 2026, 10:00

  • Los Angeles: Saturday, 23 May 2026, 2am

July: Live Call (5)

  • Berlin: Saturday, 11 July 2026, 11:00

  • Melbourne: Saturday, 11 July 2026, 7pm

  • New York: Saturday, 11 July 2026, 5am

  • London: Saturday, 11 July 2026, 10:00

  • Los Angeles: Saturday, 11 July 2026, 2am

September: Live Call (7)

  • Berlin: Saturday, 12 September 2026, 11:00

  • Melbourne: Saturday, 12 September 2026, 7pm

  • New York: Saturday, 12 September 2026, 5am

  • London: Saturday, 12 September 2026, 10:00

  • Los Angeles: Saturday, 12 September 2026, 2am

March: Live Call (1)

  • Berlin: Saturday, 28 March 2026, 19:00

  • Melbourne: Sunday, 29 March 2026, 5am

  • New York: Saturday, 28 March 2026, 2pm

  • London: Saturday, 28 March 2026, 18:00

  • Los Angeles: Saturday, 28 March 2026, 11am

June: Live Call (4)

  • Berlin: Saturday, 13 June 2026, 11:00

  • Melbourne: Saturday, 13 June 2026, 7pm

  • New York: Saturday, 13 June 2026, 5am

  • London: Saturday, 13 June 2026, 10:00

  • Los Angeles: Saturday, 13 June 2026, 2am

July: BONUS CALL

  • Berlin: Saturday, 25 July 2026, 11:00

  • Melbourne: Saturday, 25 July 2026, 7pm

  • New York: Saturday, 25 July 2026, 5am

  • London: Saturday, 25 July 2026, 10:00

  • Los Angeles: Saturday, 25 July 2026, 2am

September: BONUS CALL

  • Berlin: Saturday, 26 September 2026, 11:00

  • Melbourne: Saturday, 26 September 2026, 7pm

  • New York: Saturday, 26 September 2026, 5am

  • London: Saturday, 26 September 2026, 10:00

  • Los Angeles: Saturday, 26 September 2026, 2am

November: Live Call (9)

  • Berlin: Saturday, 7 November 2026, 11:00

  • Melbourne: Saturday, 7 November 2026, 9pm

  • New York: Saturday, 7 November 2026, 5am

  • London: Saturday, 7 November 2026, 10:00

  • Los Angeles: Saturday, 7 November 2026, 2am

April: Live Call (2)

  • Berlin: Saturday, 25 April 2026, 11:00

  • Melbourne: Saturday, 25 April 2026, 7pm

  • New York: Saturday, 25 April 2026, 5am

  • London: Saturday, 25 April 2026, 10:00

  • Los Angeles: Saturday, 25 April 2026, 2am

June: BONUS CALL

  • Berlin: Sunday, 21 June 2026, 12:00

  • Melbourne: Sunday, 21 June 2026, 8pm

  • New York: Sunday, 21 June 2026, 6am

  • London: Sunday, 21 June 2026, 11:00

  • Los Angeles: Sunday, 21 June 2026, 3am

August: Live Call (6)

  • Berlin: Saturday, 22 August 2026, 11:00

  • Melbourne: Saturday, 22 August 2026, 7pm

  • New York: Saturday, 22 August 2026, 5am

  • London: Saturday, 22 August 2026, 10:00

  • Los Angeles: Saturday, 22 August 2026, 2am

October: Live Call (8)

  • Berlin: Saturday, 17 October 2026, 11:00

  • Melbourne: Saturday, 17 October 2026, 8pm

  • New York: Saturday, 17 October 2026, 5am

  • London: Saturday, 17 October 2026, 10:00

  • Los Angeles: Saturday, 17 October 2026, 2am

November: Closing Ritual BONUS CALL

  • Berlin: Saturday, 21 November 2026, 11:00

  • Melbourne: Saturday, 21 November 2026, 9pm

  • New York: Saturday, 21 November 2026, 5am

  • London: Saturday, 21 November 2026, 10:00

  • Los Angeles: Saturday, 21 November 2026, 2am

There is nothing wrong with you for wanting more. More depth, more honesty, more touch, more pleasure. The longing itself is a sign that your erotic self is still alive. She is waiting for you to come closer. For your spark to ignite into flames.

NAOMI HARRIS

BECOME the woman that you were always meant to be

I need this