Becoming

9 months to grow into the woman you were always meant to be

A mentorship with Naomi Harris

Have you ever felt like your body is carrying stories of silence, shame, or pain that want to be released? Patterns that keep you shut down, even as a deeper part of you longs for pleasure and freedom? A quiet voice inside that whispers: there has to be more than this?

Maybe you’re yearning for better sex, deeper intimacy, or the courage to finally open to desire. Maybe you’ve struggled with pain, numbness, or loneliness and are ready for something to shift.

This is your invitation into BECOMING, a journey to awaken your body, reclaim your sexuality, and transform the way you live, love, and relate.

Over twelve deep, beautiful, transformational months, you’ll walk step by step through the Quest, guided by teachings, practices, and a circle of women who will walk beside you. This is where you shed the old story, claim your pleasure, and become the hero of your own intimate life.

The Pleasure Quest: A Year to Sexual Freedom is a 12-month guided journey for women who are ready to step into their own epic story of pleasure and power.

Next live group starts:
‍January 1, 2026

Spaces will be limited to 42 participants to ensure personal attention and intimate group dynamics.

Bookings will open on November 1st, 2025.

What makes The Pleasure Quest Special?

Imagine giving yourself a whole year to heal so deeply that the change lasts the rest of your lifetime.

The Pleasure Quest isn’t a casual program where you have to work it all out yourself.

It is a deep, guided dive into everything that is stopping you from having the intimate life you long for.

And that means intimacy with yourself, and with others!

Over this 12 month program you will learn tools and techniques I have gathered over my 2 decades of working with women.

These aren’t ideas or theories about what might bring change and healing.

I will be sharing the gold of everything I have learnt and use for the transformation of my clients and myself.

This is deep, sustainable healing and transformation.

And it’s going to be fun!

Hello beautiful woman, I’m Naomi, your guide on this Quest.

My own Pleasure Quest began in silence. For years, I was shut down. I wasn’t orgasming. I lived with sexual pain, hiding myself and pretending everything was fine. Inside, I felt broken. Until one day a whisper came: There has to be more than this.

That whisper was my call to adventure.

Following it was terrifying, but it led me to everything. I began exploring my own sexuality, facing old fears, and slowly learning to trust my body again. And what I discovered changed me forever: pleasure isn’t extra, it’s essential. Our sensuality is not separate from our health and happiness, it’s the key that unlocks both.

That realization became the heart of my life’s work. Today I guide hundreds of women each year, supporting them to heal pain and numbness, awaken desire, and discover what it feels like to live in a turned-on, joy-filled body.

And for me? After years of loneliness and painful relationships, I now share a deeply loving, playful, passionate partnership. But I’ll be honest, intimacy is sometimes still a kick in the butt. It is a place of joy, connection, laughter, and deep embodied pleasure, but it is also a place of continuous learning and healing.

And don’t believe any teacher who says otherwise!

That is why I created this Pleasure Quest. Because intimacy, pleasure and connection are not a one-and-done, sorted it all out in a hurry situation.

You need the time, tools and the support, so that after the Quest is over, you know what to do, and how to do it, so that you can thrive in your intimacy, with yourself and with your partners!

  • (Group program) Thank you for setting me on this path. I am glad I came across you. Honest, authentic, gentle, with a clear message, without false promises and with much compassion.

    J, Netherlands

  • (Group Program) I have never seen or heard this material before, and I've had these breasts all my life! I've never seen them in that way, and to be honest: I had NO idea that they are so gorgeous! I am suddenly discovering these amazing parts of my body that I have scolded and belittled all my life. I am so grateful for this. Thank you.

    M, Sweden

  • (Group Program) Working with Naomi was such an amazing process & transformative experience. It has fixed my incontinence issue (in just 3 weeks) but I got so much more out of it too. A greater sense of my body & what she’s capable of, but also a deeper connection with myself & increased love for myself too.

    T, Australia

  • (Group Program) Naomi was supportive and respectful and explained everything from a sacred perspective. I felt as though I could cope with whatever arose because of the support that was provided.

    D, Australia

  • (Group Program) Naomi has helped me realise… that I have been subconsciously thinking and acting without regard for my body’s limits. From pushing my body past it’s comfort to realising I carry a lot of stress and shame which is a trigger for my pain. Naomi has such a kind gentle nature that makes you feel instantly safe.

    K, Australia

  • (Group Program) Naomi provides a beautiful sense of safety through her comfortable, embodied presence and passion for the work. I’ve learnt how much deeper my own boundaries and safety and advocacy can become to facilitate a deeper experience of pleasure in my body.

    C, Australia

  • (Group Program) Naomi is absolutely gifted at holding a safe, gentle space for women to slow down and lean into practicing deep embodied self care. I have experienced significant improvements in pelvic health and aliveness, I feel more vitally connected to myself, my body and pleasure as a pathway to self-realisation. If feeling safe in your body and more pleasure, aliveness and gorgeous in your own skin sounds good to you, don’t hesitate to work with Naomi.

    E, Australia

The 12 months of The Pleasure Quest are a unique blending of sacred, embodied sexuality work, with the concepts of the 12 stages of The Hero’s Journey as share by Joseph Campbell.

Each month takes us further down the path of transformation towards sexual freedom, beginning in January with where we are at, right now, and ending with our ritual celebration in December as we return with all of the treasure we have collected along the way.

The Map of Transformation

  • January: The Ordinary World

    Silence, shame, pain, and disconnection.

    Our January themes:

    Tools to build safety inside yourself to begin the journey

    Honoring your starting point, who you are now

    Exploring sexual conditioning and shedding stories that don’t serve you

    Breaking through any belief that you are broken

    Discovering the first tools of self connection

    Feet: The ground underneath you, support and connection

  • February: The Call To Adventure

    The call to joy, freedom, intimacy, and pleasure.

    Our February Themes:

    Meeting and naming your longings

    Reclaiming desire as a natural part of being a woman

    Identifying core wounds and protective patterns

    Learning tools to trust the call in yourself

    Exploring what pleasure could look like for you

    Ears: The first whisper you hear, the tug of longing that calls you forward

  • March: Refusing the Call

    Hesitation, doubt, fear and resistance

    Our March Themes:

    Practices to support you to face your doubts and your shame

    Recognizing fear and resistance as guardians

    Examining attachment to outcomes

    Facing any shame about your body, your desires, or your past.

    Exploring surrender and trust in your body and in your life

    Skin: The boundary between worlds, where you touch and are touched

  • April: Your Body as Guide and Mentor

    Trust, connection, self worth, love

    Your April Themes:

    Meeting yourself as your one true guide

    Healing shame that comes from listening to yourself over all other’s needs

    Connecting with your lived wisdom

    Your body is not your enemy, she is your ally but do you know how to listen?

    Touching yourself with respect, love and honoring

    Heart: guidance, wisdom, and the softness of your heart

  • May: Crossing The First Threshold

    Embodied experience, sexuality awakening

    Your May Themes:

    Moving from thought to the body, imagination to experience

    Understanding sexuality awakening

    Exploring pleasure in your body

    Exploring your voice as a powerful vehicle for pleasure and connection

    Learning how to know what you want, anyway.

    Throat: Where voice meets silence, where truth is spoken

  • June: Tests, Allies and Shadows

    Old patterns, hidden fears, and new strength.

    Your June Themes

    Facing old habits that keep sex shut down and desire low

    Sex and sexuality as a powerful healing tool

    Learning to trust and lean on other women as support - healing the sister wound

    Tools to build resilience when pleasure feels out of reach

    Hands: What reaches out and pulls back, how you grasp for courage.

  • July: Approach the Innermost Cave

    Turning inward to face wounds and desires.

    Your July Themes

    Meeting your deepest fears about intimacy face on

    Recognizing the places you still hold back in sex, even with yourself

    Touching desires you’ve hidden, even from yourself

    Turning toward the most vulnerable parts of your sexual story with compassion and healing

    Vulva: The gateway to inside, tender and powerful

  • August: The Ordeal

    Confronting pain, shame, and fear

    Your August Themes

    Fully confronting sexual shame or fear

    Practices for when times are hard and overwhelming

    Examining sadness, grief, loss and longing as tools to turn towards pleasure

    Acknowledging grief for what has been lost, so that what has been found can be claimed in full

    Eyes: The gaze that looks away in doubt, fear, and hesitation, then turns to see the truth

  • September: The Reward

    Sex that satisfies, intimacy that nourishes, orgasms that fulfill

    Your September Themes

    Practices to experience feeling fully present in your body during intimacy

    The sexual power that women carry inside them

    Meet your womb as wise oracle in your life

    Womb: The myths and magic of your womb

  • October: The Road Back

    Carrying your pleasure into everyday life

    Your October Themes

    Integrating your new sexual self into daily life

    Exploring authentic connection and relationships

    Pleasure as a whole of life experience, not just sex

    Understanding choices that honour your body’s true yes and no

    Spine: Carrying your new strength, standing taller, weaving transformation into everyday life

  • November: Ressurection

    Choosing freedom, rising into sexual power.

    Your November Themes

    Understanding what it takes to not return to silence and disappointment

    Practices to choose that sex remains a source of joy, not shame or fear

    Claiming your sexuality without apology, but with a gentle heart

    Lungs: The breath of renewal, rising into new life, alive with desire and freedom

  • December: Return with the Treasure

    Living a life of joy, desire, and freedom

    Your December Themes

    Tools for sharing transformation with partners and community - what if they don’t like it?

    Self defining a future of sexual embodiment and pleasure

    Remembering where you came from and where you are now

    Ritual for celebration and closing of the Quest circle

    Whole body: The integration of the whole, radiance flowing through you

What is included in your Pleasure Quest

This Quest brings together the threads of your past, present, and future, inviting you to explore, understand, and integrate every part of yourself. Each stage flows into the next, creating a clear path of discovery and transformation.

And remember this is your journey. You choose the pace and depth that feels right for you, while being held by the circle of women and supported by my guidance along the way.

  • Twelve Stages of the Pleasure Quest: Each month there is a 60 minute video teaching all about each stage of transformation and how it lives in your body and sexuality.

  • Monthly Gatherings of the Circle: Each month there is also a live call bringing the community together for support and encouragement. The live calls will be on the third Saturday of every month at 8am Berlin/ 4pm Melbourne/ 11pm (Friday) Los Angeles. Calls will be recorded.

  • Embodied Practices: Guided explorations, rituals, and somatic exercises that awaken your body as your own teacher, healer, and source of pleasure. Each week there will be a new practice to try, taking around 5 - 10 minutes, that will bring you deeper and deeper into yourself.

  • A Living Community: A private online sanctuary where you walk side by side with other women on the same path, carrying each other forward. Are you shy or an introvert? You are welcome to come, sink into the community, and interact as little as you need.

  • Monthly workbooks: Filled with reflection prompts and exercises.

  • Optional: A pen to paper pen-pal from the community, so that you can build connection and friendship away from the screen.

  • The Map of Transformation: A year-long arc that holds you steady as you journey from silence and shame to freedom and joy.

What you’ll take away

Personal Life

  • Understand the patterns and stories shaping your sexual experiences.

  • Learn practical tools to calm your body and feel safe in intimacy.

  • Build confidence in your desires, intuition, and inner sexual wisdom.

  • Navigate love, dating, and relationships with more ease and courage.

  • Feel at home in your body, alive with sensation and self-connection.

Intimate Life

  • Discover how to communicate what you want and need in sex.

  • Explore somatic practices that open your body to deeper pleasure.

  • Approach intimacy with trauma-aware care for yourself and others.

  • Reclaim your desire and expand your orgasmic capacity.

  • Experience sex as nourishing, joyful, and safe.

Everyday Life

  • Bring more authenticity into your relationships and connections.

  • Create clear, loving boundaries that protect your energy.

  • Trust yourself to know and honor your yes and no.

  • Build resilience when old fears or patterns show up.

  • Live with more purpose, confidence, and sexual freedom.

Early bird

Until 15 December, save €200

Ready to invest in yourself?

A 12 month mentorship with Naomi Harris

Pay In Full: €1200 (save a further $200!)

or 12 x monthly installments of €117

Aussies, I would love you to join and I know the exchange rate is a monster right now! Reach out to talk about what we can work out!

Standard

From 16 December - 1 January

Pay In Full: €1400 (save $200)

or 12 x monthly installments of €134

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There are a limited number of VIP spaces available

includes 4 x private sessions with Naomi. This is for you if you would love to go deeper into your healing journey, or if you know that you have a situation or condition that would benefit from more support.

Pay in full early bird: €1700

or 12 x monthly installments of €150

Pay in full standard: €1900

or 12 x monthly installments of €170

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Some extra FAQs

Investment & Payment

Program Structure & Content

  • Yes. This course is trauma-informed and everything is offered as an invitation, never a demand. I’m available for support if anything comes up along the way, and if you feel you need more personal guidance, there’s a VIP option that includes 1:1 sessions with me.

    However, please ensure that you are stable, able to care for yourself, or know how to access support if you need it. This program is not individual therapy.

    Reach out to me and let’s talk if you are not sure.

  • There will be a recording of the live calls.

  • Because real transformation takes time. A year gives you space to move slowly, to let each stage of the journey sink in, and to integrate what you discover into your daily life. Month by month, the Quest builds depth and momentum so the changes you make last.

  • All practices are trauma-informed and adaptable for different needs.

    This course welcomes you whether you're navigating pain, illness, surgery, or disconnection, and whether you're in a relationship, single, or anywhere in between.

Results & Outcomes

Logistics & Timing

Concerns & Considerations

Technical & Practical Matters

  • I understand that finances can be a barrier. That’s why I offer payment plans to make the Quest more accessible. If you feel called to join but need support, reach out, we can explore options together.

  • Each month you’ll receive a 60-minute pre-recorded teaching and join a 90-minute live community call. Beyond that, I recommend about 10 minutes a day for practices, reflection, or journaling. You can interact in the community as much or little as you wish, and of course, do more daily practice if you wish as well!

  • No. You’ll never be asked to share anything you don’t want to. Some women choose to open up, others prefer to stay quiet and simply take in the teachings and practices. Both are welcome.

  • That’s completely fine. All live sessions are recorded so you can watch in your own time. You’ll also be part of our dedicated private community space, where you can connect, share, and build relationships along the journey.