BECOMING

9 months to grow into the woman you were always meant to be

A GROUP MENTORSHIP WITH NAOMI HARRIS

Is your body is carrying stories of silence, shame, or pain? Patterns that keep you shut down? A hope that there is more to life than this?

Maybe you are yearning for sex that actually feels good. Honest intimacy. A relationship with yourself that does not vanish the moment someone else is in the room. You might be living with pain, numbness, or a deep, private loneliness and you are ready for something to change at the root.

Or maybe you’re a woman who works with other women and want to deepen your toolkit, because you know that your own becoming is part of your service.

This is your invitation into BECOMING, a journey to become the woman that you are meant to be. Transform your relationship with yourself, awaken your body, reclaim your sexuality, and reshape the way you live, love, and relate.

Over nine deep, beautiful, rigorously honest months, you will walk step by step through BECOMING. You will not be given quick fixes or spiritual bypass. You will be given space, tools, guidance, and community to come home to yourself, in real time, in your actual life. Together.

BECOMING is a 9 month guided journey for women who are ready to reshape their lives.

Next live group starts:
March 2027

Spaces are limited to ensure personal attention and intimate group dynamics.

Every one of us deserves to become the woman that we are here to be.

Imagine giving yourself nine months to heal in a way that lasts for the rest of your life. Nine months to grow into the woman you have been sensing inside yourself for years.

Are you tired of feeling alone with your questions, your longings, or your pain?
Are you noticing that the strategies that once helped you cope are no longer enough?
Are you ready to stop circling around your truth and finally step into it?

Maybe you’re at a life threshold, maybe you are tired of disappointing sex, maybe you have realised that you need a different kind of intimacy and relating, or that it’s time to finally get the words out you really want to say.

Let this mentorship be the turning point.
The moment you begin BECOMING the woman you know you are meant to be.

Over these nine months you will be guided through the tools and practices I have refined over two decades of working with thousands of women. This is not theory. This is not inspiration. This is the work that creates real, lasting change.

It is deep.
It is sustainable.
And it returns you to yourself.

And although the work goes deep, it will also be human, nourishing, and full of moments of relief and discovery. You will not be alone. You will be supported, seen, and met as a whole woman.

  • (Group Program) Working with Naomi was such an amazing process & transformative experience. It has fixed my incontinence issue (in just 3 weeks) but I got so much more out of it too. A greater sense of my body & what she’s capable of, but also a deeper connection with myself & increased love for myself too. It pushed me in ways that was gentle but became so apparent that I had to choose ME & because of it I am NOW actually chasing my dream of what I have wanted to do ever since I was little but didn't have the courage to do, so it really has been TRANSFORMATIVE for me. Naomi was so amazing at holding space & guiding us so gently that it was always so much fun & felt so safe. Thankyou SOOOO much Naomi with all of my heart

    T, Australia

  • (Group program) Thank you for setting me on this path. I am glad I came across you. Honest, authentic, gentle, with a clear message, without false promises and with much compassion.

    J, Netherlands

  • (Group Program) I have never seen or heard this material before, and I've had these breasts all my life! I've never seen them in that way, and to be honest: I had NO idea that they are so gorgeous! I am suddenly discovering these amazing parts of my body that I have scolded and belittled all my life. I am so grateful for this. Thank you.

    M, Sweden

  • (Group Program) Naomi was supportive and respectful and explained everything from a sacred perspective. I felt as though I could cope with whatever arose because of the support that was provided.

    D, Australia

  • (Group Program) Naomi has helped me realise… that I have been subconsciously thinking and acting without regard for my body’s limits. From pushing my body past it’s comfort to realising I carry a lot of stress and shame which is a trigger for my pain. Naomi has such a kind gentle nature that makes you feel instantly safe.

    K, Australia

  • (Group Program) Naomi provides a beautiful sense of safety through her comfortable, embodied presence and passion for the work. I’ve learnt how much deeper my own boundaries and safety and advocacy can become to facilitate a deeper experience of pleasure in my body.

    C, Australia

  • (Group Program) Naomi is absolutely gifted at holding a safe, gentle space for women to slow down and lean into practicing deep embodied self care. I have experienced significant improvements in pelvic health and aliveness, I feel more vitally connected to myself, my body and pleasure as a pathway to self-realisation. If feeling safe in your body and more pleasure, aliveness and gorgeous in your own skin sounds good to you, don’t hesitate to work with Naomi.

    E, Australia

We have been taught to believe that healing comes from trying harder. It doesn’t. Trying harder is what has got us here: exhausted, overwhelmed, lonely and undersexed.

Healing comes from slowly, gently learning who you are and how to stay with yourself, and letting your body lead you home. NAOMI HARRIS

The nine months of BECOMING are a carefully held journey into the depths of who you are. This work is a unique blending of somatics, sacred embodied self knowing, ritual, sexuality, personal myth, emotional unravelling, and deep sensual presence. It is a space where you grow by meeting yourself with honesty, tenderness, and courage.

Across these months you will be guided into the layers of your past, the truth of your present, and the possibilities of your future. You will come to understand how your patterns were shaped, how your body has been protecting you, and how to integrate the parts of yourself that have been waiting to be met.

Each theme builds upon the one that came before it. Month by month you create a coherent map of your own becoming. You gain the emotional and somatic literacy to stay with yourself, the tools to cultivate pleasure and intimacy, and the inner strength to live from a place of worth and clarity.

It is about returning to the woman you were always meant to be.

What you will learn inside BECOMING:

How your female body actually works
You will learn the truth of the incredible wonder that is your female anatomy, arousal, and pleasure, not the simplified and dumbed down versions most of us were taught. It will blow your mind!

Tools to awaken your erotic aliveness
You will explore practices that help your body feel more responsive, alive, connected, and available to pleasure, with yourself and with others. Every one of us is filled with the sleeping potential of more erotic pleasure, and this is how yours wakes up.

How your nervous system shapes your intimacy
Through education and somatic practices, you will deeply understand how your female nervous system responds, protects, opens, closes, and heals, and why your patterns are not personal flaws but survival strategies. They are here to be celebrated and healed.

What sexuality looks like beyond performance
You will meet your erotic self outside of pressure, expectation, and everything that you have been sold that your sexuality is. Discover what turns you on from the inside and what your personal flavour of sexuality is.

How to stay with yourself through stressors and thresholds
Motherhood, perimenopause, menopause and all the other thresholds of a woman’s life require new pathways of connection. So do those high stress moments of life that try to take you away from yourself. You will learn how to stay rooted in yourself through each one.

Why pleasure is essential for healing
Talk therapy and trauma work alone cannot bring you into fullness. Pleasure is the part that restores aliveness, trust, and the capacity to receive. And your particular flavour of pleasure is waiting to be discovered…

How to turn yourself on from the inside
You will learn how to kindle desire, build confidence, and follow what feels good in a way that feels true for you. Desire because of desire, not because of obligation.

How to communicate with clarity and truth
You will learn how to speak your wants, needs, limits, and boundaries with confidence and care, without shrinking or overriding yourself.

The Map of BECOMING:

This is the nine month journey of a woman growing herself from the inside out. A return to what is true, layer by layer, month by month.
There is no rushing this. We are growing into it.

There comes a time when a woman realises she can no longer abandon herself to keep her life intact. She feels the cost in her body. She feels the ache of the parts she has left behind. And she knows that something has to change at the root. NAOMI HARRIS

BECOMING Is For You If:

• You feel a pull toward a deeper, more honest relationship with your body, your sexuality, and your inner life.
• You are tired of navigating intimacy, desire, or pain alone and you want support that is grounded, skilled, and real.
• You sense that your old coping strategies are no longer enough and you are ready to grow beyond them.
• You crave a community and a place where your intelligence, your sensitivity, and your complexity are respected.
• You want intimacy that feels nourishing instead of performative.
• You are ready to stop abandoning yourself in relationships and start choosing yourself with clarity.
• You want to understand your body not as a problem to fix, but as a source of wisdom and belonging.
• You are willing to show up for yourself daily and move gently but steadily into a new way of being.
• You are ready for change that is sustainable, embodied, and rooted in truth, not quick fixes.
• You feel the sense that it is time.

BECOMING Is Not For You If:

• You want fast results without doing steady, embodied work.
• You are looking for surface-level techniques instead of deep, honest transformation.
• You are unwilling to meet your body with presence, patience, and respect.
• You are not open to examining your patterns, stories, and relational habits.
• You prefer inspiration without integration.
• You want someone to tell you what to do rather than learning how to listen to yourself.
• You are not ready to step into a community of women and be witnessed in your becoming.
• You are looking for a purely informational program rather than a lived, somatic experience.
• You are not able or willing to make space for yourself over nine months.

INVESTMENT

BECOMING: a 9 month journey to grow into the woman you were always meant to be

We begin ‍March 2027

Spaces are limited to ensure personal attention and intimate group dynamics.

BECOMING is a nine month guided journey for women who are ready to grow themselves from the inside out. It is a slow, embodied transformation that follows the arc of human gestation, mirroring the depth, precision, and timing of real growth. Each month builds upon the one before it, creating change that is steady, integrated, and sustainable.

By the end of the nine months, you will have built a relationship with yourself that is honest, grounded, and unshakeably yours.

Included:

The 9 stages of BECOMING: a monthly 60 - 90 minute video teaching on the theme of the month, prerecorded so that you can watch and rewatch as you need

BECOMING in Sisterhood: a monthly 90+ minute live call to connect in community, with live coaching, practices, celebrations and support

5 bonus live events: included are opening and closing rituals, a pelvic mapping class, sexuality salon and a life changing womb ritual

Monthly workbooks: filled with reflection prompts and exercises

Embodied Practices: guided explorations and somatic exercises that awaken your body as your own teacher and healer

Community: a private Substack community to connect with me and the women who are walking this path alongside you.

Recordings: of all of the teachings, calls, embodied practices and bonuses will be recorded and available for you to download and keep

Optional: A pen to paper pen-pal who is also BECOMING, so that you can build connection and friendship away from the screen.

Hello beautiful woman, I’m Naomi, your guide to BECOMING.

My own BECOMING began in silence. For years, I was shut down. I wasn’t orgasming. I lived with sexual pain, hiding myself and pretending everything was fine. I followed every empty, miserable relationship with times of being a hermit and hiding myself away. Inside, I felt broken. Until one day a whisper came: There has to be more than this.

Following the whisper was terrifying, but it led me to everything. I began exploring my own sexuality, facing old fears, and slowly learning to trust my body again. I realised my own worth, and learnt how to ask for what I wanted and let the goodness in. And what I discovered changed me forever: I have worth, and I deserve to be the woman that I was born here to be.

That realization became the heart of my life’s work. Today I guide hundreds of women each year, supporting them to heal pain and numbness, awaken desire, relate from a place of worth and love, and discover what it feels like to live in a turned-on, joy-filled body.

And for me? After years of loneliness and painful relationships, I now share a deeply loving, playful, passionate partnership.

That is why I created BECOMING. Because self worth, intimacy, pleasure and connection are not a one-and-done, sorted it all out in a hurry situation.

You need the time, tools and the support, so that after BECOMING is over, you will know your worth and what you want and need, and you will be YOU. More you than ever before, unflinchingly, boldly YOU.

With self love, self worth and knowledge of yourself as the wind in your sails.

Let this be the time that you truly become yourself.

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There is nothing wrong with you for wanting more. More depth, more honesty, more touch, more pleasure. The longing itself is a sign that your erotic self is still alive. She is waiting for you to come closer. For your spark to ignite into flames.

NAOMI HARRIS

BECOME the woman that you were always meant to be