Most couples never sit down and find out.

They make assumptions, and the gaps grow.

This guide gives you 18 questions to work through together, so you can see where you already agree, where you’ve been guessing, and where you could be closer.

You’ll find out what makes sex feel worth doing for each of you, what makes you feel wanted, and how to ask for closeness without it always turning into sex.

This guide gives suggestions on how to get the best out of the conversation, and what to do with the information you gather.

Print it, sit down together, and take turns. Your first honest conversation might be the one that changes your sex life into everything you wish it was.